More than ever there are more and more blended families. When one parent remarries it is important to realize that the other parent becomes the parent. For example if mom remarries or marries someone, her husband becomes father to the child(ren). The opposite is also true if a father remarries or marries again.
This does not mean that the child's relationship with their biological father ceases to exist or that they must stop loving, honoring, or respecting their biological father. It does mean that the non biological parent must treat their spouses children as their own. Just because they did not procreate to have that child there should be absolutely no difference in how they raise the child.
When you marry, you must become a family unit as husband, wife, and children. You are to be the authority of the children. They are your children. The word "step-children" is completely worldly. Do not allow any form of disrespect towards the new parent from the children.
The children will take time to adjust, but will the proper guidance and love they will learn to respect, honor, and cherish their time with you. Exercise patience and love with them at all times.
About Me
- Adrian Maddox
- Adrian is a young woman that has always believed in the value of taking care of yourself.She has been athletic since age 4. Adrian was born in Buffalo. She moved out to Washington State until the age of 16. She then moved to Oregon where she obtained her degree in Business Administration. Her father is the proud President/Owner of a new car dealership which he has owned since 1991. She uses him as her inspiration to succeed in business. He has been named in a very dominating nationwide publication. Her mother has instilled some major core values in her such as love, trust, respect, loyalty, morality, responsibility, empathy, service, and giving. She is firmly rooted in these values and if someone can be half the woman that she is, then they have come a long way. Although, her mother has never professed to be a Christian woman, she has Christian values. Adrian is deeply humbled and honored to have been blessed by GOD to have been given the mother that GOD gave her.
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