Questions Before "I do"

It makes sense although many do not take the time necessary to do some basic communication before the big "I do" If you take this time, then you can avoid any unwelcome surprises, conflicts, or incompatibilities.

Here are some basic questions that you should have a full understanding of your spouse prior to marriage. Doing so will greatly improve your liklihood of having a marriage of heaven on earth or if not it can be hell on earth. Not doing so does not mean that you can't have heaven on earth, but you will have much more work.

1.)What is your relationship with your family?
2.)How do you handle money?
3.)How many children do you want or already have?
4.)What are your spiritual viewpoints?
5.)How do you handle stress?
6.)What are your other interests, habits, etc?
7.)Where do want to live?
8.)Do you have any major health issues?
9.)What is your work ethic?
10.)What is your overall lifestyle?

These should only be a begining to your conversations. Find out all you can before you say "I do" so if it isn't right you can get out before you are married.