There are times when another married couple will come to you for counsel. They may be able to see through your conduct, character, and commitment that the two of you can provide good counsel.
This is a touchy subject. There are a couple of ground rules that you should follow.
1.) Never do it alone. It should always be the four of you together and you should all be in agreement.
2.) Confidentiality is critical. They have trusted you with intimate details of their marriage. What they say or do must be kept strictly private.
3.) Do not judge them. You do not have that right, only God can judge. Remain objective, realistic and respectful at all times.
4.)Most importantly, keep it scriptual. Even if they are not believers, you know what is scriptual so stick to it and put it up in prayer.
Always remain true to your conduct, character, and commitment as you help them through this difficult time.
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