Celebrate Each Other

Although the big things matter, we need to take more time to celebrate the small things that we see in each other. We already know the conduct, character, and commitment of our spouse, but when is the last time you noticed something small.

Husbands, would you notice if your wife changed her hairstyle or perfume? Sometimes you need to major in the minor. Often times a bunch of little things can add up to be more than the whole. It makes you appreciate what you do have in each other and not to focus on what you don't have.

Wives, would you notice if your husband changed his hairstyle or cologne? It goes both ways. You can't expect him to notice you when you don't notice him. It shows that you pay attention to each other and brings you closer as husband and wife. Let the other know that they are special enough to pay attention towards.

This is not to say that you need to neglect the big picture, but what it does say is that when you focus on the small picture the big picture will become much clearer.