Not everyone is blessed with being in the same house with our spouse every day or most days. Unfortunately there are many times when each spouse is forced to be in different time zones, whether it is due to military, careers, children or what ever else.
This does not mean that your marriage has to suffer. The two of you can still maintain a strong and healthy marriage even if it does require some extra work. In the beginning, we were forced to be on opposite coasts. Here is what we did to make sure we were still kept close. If you are put in this situation follow some of these guidelines to at least help.
1. Continue to make time for each other. Whether it is on the phone, or our favorite the webcam. Let your spouse know that you are still willing to sacrafice time on their behalf.
2. Continue to share in all major decisions. Do not cut out each other when making decisions in regards to children, finances, careers etc.
3. Stay spiritually, emotionally, and mentally connected with each other.
4. Make it a point to visit each other taking turns of who does the traveling.
This can be difficult, but you have to trust God to give you the strength to get through this period in your marriage.
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